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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You won't have any problem finding men who want this.  Basically, you want a FWB who you are giving permission to sleep with other women and you can sleep with other men. While some men won't want this, most men in the post-divorce dating world will be thrilled.

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I agree. I have been dating a couple of years (late 40s) and have not met any men who want to be monogamous. [/quote]

Similar - dating in late 30s and there are men that still want to be monogamous. If they are decent, I am open to the idea and going slow, but it is a tall order convincing me. I love very hard, and I’m 100% in once I’m in. The difficulty is getting me there. I don’t think other people know themselves that well (with some exception) so it has to be weighed carefully. I didn’t leave a crappy marriage and take our child to grow up healthily just to get wrapped up in someone else’s dysfunction.  I didn’t divorce my ex to argue with you about stupid stuff. Let’s keep it cool whip lite and remove any serious expectations from the other.

We can travel, we can dine at new restaurants together, we can cuddle, we can laugh and talk politics, philosophy and watch movies. Hard line drawn when we are talking about how I (or uou) manage my wealth, career, raise my child, invest in my future, live where and how I want to.

I’m not the type to sleep around and I used to joke with my FWB that I always attract marriage minded men, and where are the playboys?! In hindsight, it’s not a horrible thing because nothing is forced, I’m not deceptive and rarely have dated/courted more than one person with overlap. God did me a favor by hiding me from the playboys. Turns out snake bites aren’t that fun. [/quote]

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