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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Rejecting a relative is rude.  Ignoring someone is rude.  Deliberately not including someone is rude.  Your DH should be addressing the behavior with his family.  If they cannot be polite/civil to you, he must choose:  you or them.  You don't need to like each other, you don't need to be friends, you don't have to care for each other.  You do have to be polite/civil to each other.

BTDT [/quote]

+1. Also in this position. They are rude and their behavior unforgivable. Avoid as much as possible. If your SO isn't standing up for you and choosing you over them then that is the real issue.

Fwiw, I just stopped attending anything with them or allowing them to stay at my home about a year, year and a half ago and never been so happy.  Your relationship is doomed if you and SO aren't a team because even if you move away from the ILs and don't have any contact the lack of trust and resentment is going to fester between the two of you. They'll treat your children the same as they do you if they can't poison them against you so really watch that as well. [/quote]

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