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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he is sort of in denial and is hoping some of it goes away as he matures. [b]He also used to be in the pharmaceutical field and thinks the ADHD drugs are partly a money-making scheme[/b]. It's the strangest thing, because he is otherwise a very intelligent guy (has a PhD), but I just cannot get him to read articles and books on the subject (and believe me, I've tried), so he is just so uneducated on the disorder. It's very frustrating. That's why I'm thinking I need to get a professional to convince him. [/quote]

HOLD the phone!!  He is in a position of knowledge here and you want to second guess him and what he's learned in his field....even with a PhD?  Not to be snarky here, but perhaps it is you that needs to back down.  My husband was the one wanting to try medication with my kids, but  he never spent a lick of time researching it.  I, on the other hand, have spent the past 5 years researching ways to cure my children's disorders naturally and holistically.  When we reached a stale-mate on the subject, I told him that as soon as he spent his first hundred hours researching the subject, we could have our first serious conversation in which his opinion would actually matter to me.  Medication is not something to take lightly.  You can't just rely on the doctors...they aren't going to tell you about any of the horror stories or nightmares associated with these drugs.  They're going to tell you exactly what the drug companies have trained them to say.  You need to research how these physicians get kickbacks from the drug companies, you need to research the studies behind the drugs, you need to go deeper than a doctor does because in the end, if something happens to your child, they have insurance to back them up and you are left with the pieces to pick up.  And they have the listed known side effects listed such that you can't say you didn't know the risks.  If, after you have become an expert on the drug that they want to put your child on, you still feel that it is in your child's best interest to medicate, then you should do so.  But do it with complete confidence and knowledge so that when/if there are problems, you know exactly WHY they are happening.  Anything else is, in my opinion, completely irresponsible.[/quote]

Hello sane person. I totally agree with everything you say. So nice to know there is another person on this board who has really done their medication research and doesn't just rely on a couple of articles from a drug-funded "advocacy" website.  [/quote]

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