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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m guessing he’s getting your last name too? Seems like if his last name will be your family name, and he will have your middle name, that it would be fair to give home your wife’s first choice for first name, which has been pre-approved and vetted by you.[/quote] OP here. He is getting my last name. [/quote] Well I think you have your answer then. And agree with PP that you might want to apologize for arguing about it. My husband really dug in on his first choice name and outright rejected every other name I proposed. Even though I liked his first choice, I was unsure and felt frustrated that his opinions drove the process. He wound up getting his way, but after giving birth to our child I felt resentful about how he handled it and it actually became a thing in our marriage for a while. It’s still a sore spot for me. Be kind to the woman who is using her own body to build a whole new member of your family. She deserves that kindness.[/quote]
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