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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It doesn’t matter what the posts are. Your cousin, his friend, is telling you he’s not over his ex.

And you are thinking like a woman when trying to make sense of him spending v-day weekend with you. As a woman, you wouldn’t spend a weekend that has romantic connotations with someone who you weren’t interested in a long term relationship. But he’s a guy. His heart wants her, his d!ck wants a warm hole.

Right now, you are that warm hole. Not to say he might decide in the future he like your warm hole better than hers and eventually give you his heart. But the collective experience of DCUM would say, not likely. If he does get over her, he won’t look to you for a relationship. He’ll go look for someone else he respects more or doesn’t remind him of the difficult time in his life.

Plus, once a guy is into you, really into you, you won’t have to read between the lines and interpret his social media posts and ask people what things mean. This isn’t your guy. Have fun, if that’s what you want. But don’t do the “pick me” dance and try to prove you are better than ex.

Plus, why would you want to be with a guy who wouldn’t go to therapy with his gf of 2 years. He’d rather walk than do therapy—pass, not the right guy for you. [/quote]

PP, met DH 2 months after ex. I’m curious to know, if the cousin wasn’t warning OP and just go off the other details would you still think this guy wanted his ex back? I’m curious to know if the cousin is the driving force behind people saying OP is a placeholder.[/quote]

No, I think the post and contact with her mother are suspect. If I’m over someone, really over or at least trying to get over them why would a post something with their name on it. Do you really need to show off you got some stupid swag? Only time it would make sense to show off swag that also was your ex’s name was if she was named Rolex. None of it is a fire, but definitely smoke that he’s not over her.

Did you have any signs that could’ve gone either way when you started seeing your DH? [/quote]

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