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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] so only 10 years of alimony for 30 years of marriage? This is surprising.[/quote] Really? That was per NYS guidelines in place at the time and I was advised that, in consideration of my giving up my 1/2 of the house, we could knock either the monthly amount or the # of years down. I declined. Today, as I understand it, in NYS alimony is less generous than it used to be. Ymmv.[/quote] OK so wasn't house part of joint assets if you were married 30 years?[/quote] Of course. We had a 50/50 division of joint assets. I declined my 1/2 of the house in order to allow her to keep it. I took nothing in place of that equity. Not sure what your questioning. [/quote] Understood and not questioning anything (just clarifying for my understanding). I can't believe she took that in place of lifetime of alimony.[/quote]
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