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Reply to "What's the point of an ethically non monogamous relationship?"
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[quote=Anonymous]For a brief time in the late 90's before we had kids we lived in CA and we got caught up in a swingers group which I know is quite different than an ethically monogamous relationship. I was supportive of it so there was no DH arm twisting but after a year I felt it was time to stop. Some of the women took a serious liking to my husband and I could see a train wreck unfolding. I liked the other husbands but not in the same way. Fortunately my husband got transferred to the midwest and we decided to stay monogamous and we have been happily so since then. Over the next few years all of the other couples divorced. In these kind of relationships sooner or later there is going to be an emotional attachment or detachment that will wreck a marriage. Over a long marriage monogamy is challenging but the alternatives are much worse even if initially it feels exciting. [/quote]
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