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[quote=Anonymous]OP, there're a lot of misconceptions about au pair programs out there. I've had several and so far the experience has been worthwhile for both parties. Our current one came to us after being with a terrible family. It happens. I also hear plenty good stories from my aps' friends, most of whom have good experience with their host families. It makes a difference what agency you use and the quality of the local director. A pp nailed it on the head that it really comes down to how comfortable you are having a young person living in your home. My friends and I have had multiple aps from completely different countries and, while they all do a decent job caring for the kids, they've all been terrible at keeping their living space clean. That's the biggest annoyance for us. That and the loss of privacy sometimes. On the plus side, they're generally energetic and play with the kids like big sisters, and the kids love them. They talk about their dreams and aspirations and how working as an ap for a year helps facilitate that, and it's great to be part of that. If this is something that would work for your family, I'd consider it and not worry about what others might think.[/quote]
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