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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, she’s making it awkward, but it’s also a his brother, who he likely cares about.she’s not inconveniencing anyone. She asking for help for dealing with YOUR HUSBANDS BROTHER. He needs help. Let your DH help. [/quote] But OP’s DH first responsibility is to his wife. His brother needs to deal with his own issues by himself or his own wife. What if This guy was an only child? Who would this obtuse woman turn to then? I vote letting SIL know she’s being obtuse.[/quote] But he is not an only child. His wife wants her DH’s brother to help. Assuming brother loves the DH and wants to help, then he should go without backlash from his wife. This is an emergency situation, not like “fly out here to help me move” or something like that. If you can’t lean on family, who can you lean on? [/quote]
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