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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not angry, but I'm bitter that I was born with so many and such severe learning disabilities.  I wish my parents hadn't had me.  It causes difficulties EVERY SINGLE DAY, and there's nothing I can do about them. [/quote]

This makes me so incredibly sad. I have a daughter with severe learning disabilities and I hope she knows how grateful and thankful I am for her. I am so sorry it is so hard for you. I hope you find a place that makes you feel appreciated and recognizes all of your gifts.[/quote]

I do want matter if my mother is grateful or thankful for me. I struggle every day. I can’t understand what people say. I can’t understand instructions. Sometimes I can’t recognize when I’m being given advice or instructions. I’ve gotten fired from so many jobs. I get bitched out in here for not knowing things people assume every idiot would know. I’ve screwed up medication because I didn’t understand what to do, and didn’t understand that I wasn’t understanding. But hey, my mother loves me so none of that matters?

Just like you can test a fetus for an extra chromosome, I wish you could test for learning disabilities in utero too. I would never want to be responsible for putting a person in the world who has to go through what I do. [/quote]

You write very well. Do you have ADHD? Sounds like that. You need to ask for help. I would help you. You are good at saying what the problems are. You will get help. Ask for help. Do it. You are a valuable person. You seem intelligent too. Even if not, you would still be worth it. You have worth. Ask for help. Think of who you can ask, and then do it. Much love and kind wishes for you.[/quote]

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