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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you could really benefit from going to counseling/therapy for yourself. Ask yourself why you accepted this abuse for so long and why you never were able to leave the marriage yourself. It seems like during all this time of your marriage, you recognized his behavior as abusive, yet you accepted it and had children with him. You sound like you're sad over your husband's leaving when you should be relieved to no longer be in a relationship with him. Why are you wasting energy being upset over his demands for you to get medicated? That's just one more bit of evidence that he's an abusive asshole and you don't need any more evidence of that. Be glad you got a relatively easy escape. Think of your kids. If you have a son, he's seeing your relationship as a map as how to treat his future wife; you daughter sees it as how she should expect her future husband to treat her. Remove the toxic presence from your lives.[/quote]
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