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[quote=Anonymous]Good male role models are important, but so are female role models. You have to humanize yourself. You're someone your sons love. Tell them about your experiences honestly. I mean the ugly stuff, and how it shaped you. My kid knows about sexual assaults and abortions and abusive relationships along with the good stuff and accomishments. There is no such thing as "those women." We can all be those women.

Talk about how a good partner or girlfriend/boyfriend is clear with you about their boundaries, and praise good and clear communication when they engage in it.

Talk about, specifically, how to approach someone physically. Sometimes young guys forget that they are suddenly physically imposing, and need reminding about personal space, not inadvertently blocking an egress, not sneaking up on someone from behind.

If you're white, talk about racism. Talk about specifics, what you screwed up, what you learned, how to do better. E.g., how to act in a car if you are pulled over, especially if friends of color are in there with you. [/quote]

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