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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t use Meryl. It’s very hard to find a good surrogacy lawyer. She isn’t one. [/quote]
Agree. We used her and it took over a year to get a match. First match was absolutely terrible. We have ONE embryo and I had cancer so no chance to create more with own eggs and I'm old so I'm just done. Curious about your experience with her. She was weirdly rude to us (seemed like there was other stuff going on in her life maybe?) and a terrible communicator (or rather, just didn't communicate for months at a time). I know it's difficult to find GCs when there is only one embryo but we asked her MANY times about this and whether it was an issue and we should look elsewhere.

For the OP - you can use an agency that isn't local - shouldn't be an issue at all. [/quote]

I interviewed several agencies. Some of them do a home visit with each prospective surrogate (or did, pre-COVID), so they can make sure your baby isn't going to be gestated in squalor. I asked Meryl if she visited their homes, and she said, "No, but I look at them on Google Maps."  :shock: [/quote]

Sounds about right  :roll: I'm so worried about the GC she ultimately matched us with but again, I don't have the energy at this point to do this process over. Honestly, I kind of blame Meryl for stealing part of my life but that sounds quite dramatic and I know having a GC is a huge privilege. If I had known it would go like this I'm not certain we would have pursued it. [/quote]

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