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[quote=Anonymous]Op here,

My car and credit cards are in his name because he was helping me build my credit. The car is solely in his name because at the time I didn't have a high enough credit score. I make the payments. We just signed another year lease for our apt in sept. He works nights and does his internship during the day and has class Friday night and Saturday morning. I don't believe he has or would cheat on me and he doesn't do drugs. I have access to all his email accounts, computer and cell phone but dont want to invade his privcy unless i feel like something is really going on. His schedule is packed and during his free time he is with me. Yesterday he had the night off and was home with me. We both acted somewhat normal, I was a little nervous but we spoke to each other and watched a show together. I went to the store, made dinner and did some work on my own while he finished up some school work.  When I took a shower he came in the bathroom to tell me was going to his car to get paperwork and when I got out he was at his desk. I don't know why he felt he needed to to tell me he was going to his car but I have a feeling it was because he didn't want me to think he just left. He gave me a hug and a kiss on the head when I was on the sofa. I really don't know what's going on in his head. I want to talk to him but I feel I should give him a little more space. However, he made me even more sick last night before bed when he sat next to me while I laying down and hugged me. He asked if He was confusing me when he did that and I said no. I told him that i needed hugs but i understood he needed space and I wouldnt call or text him during the day like he requested. 
I'm becoming more confused by the day but part of me thinks he's testing me to see if I can change my clingy behavior but at the same time I honestly think hes has a lot of stress and he doesn't know how to handle it. I know he loves me and that our relationship issues are only part of many other factors. 
I'm trying to get over the grieving period so that I can see everything clearer. I don't want to have my emotions played with but I also don't want to over react if it is just him trying to deal with his stress.
He is 28 and I'm 26[/quote]

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