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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend of three years just broke up with me yesterday and I'm heart broken. I haven't eaten and have become physically sick. He said he has been happy in a few months and that the relationship doesn't feel right anymore. He has a lot going on between working his full time job, grad school and his internship. I know he has been stressed out, so have I but we were talking about marriage and kids in a few years. We were attempting to buy a condo last may. He said he needs space to clear everything up in his head and that he doesn't know whether or not we will get back together. My issue here (besides the heart break) is that we just signed another year lease, we have joint credit cards, my car and insurance is in his name and he has my half of a downpayment for our future house in his savings account. Can't forget half the stuff in our apt was purchased together. I'm so scared of losing him and my whole life. I've never been in love like this and I honestly thought we were gonna be together forever. We hardly fight and we always talked everything out but I guess the pressure is getting to him. What do I do?

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When the love is gone it is purely a material thing. This relationship is over. you have 4 more days of pity party (one week !). Start closing those accounts immediately or get yourself off of all those you can. Gently broach the subject of getting your deposit back if he is a tad bit of hinky go consult with an attorney to see how to get your money back.[/quote]

and i am sorry if i sound harsh but your statement here 'he doesn't know whether or not we will get back together' pisses me off. he does NOT get to decide if you all get back together. you would come to this decision as a couple. if he is saying this in this way you are WAY BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM. [/quote]

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