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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I have offered suggestions, one that would have saved them money that they scoffed because I was “too young to understand”, and it bit them in the behind. They got defensive after that and I no longer offer advice. It’s always “what could I know about that”. Won’t move, house is “free” since it’s paid off and taxes are low. Won’t get a job, wants to come and go as they please, so that’s “not a option” for them. So it’s hard because they complain just to complain. [/quote] They have agency, but would rather dump their negative emotions on your rather than do anything. I'd just change the subject to something more pleasant, and if Mom doesn't cooperate I'd get off the phone. I also wouldn't be supplementing their income if they refuse to take the equity out of their home and move into something they can afford to maintain. Been there, done that. You have my sympathies...it's hard.[/quote]
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