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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Taking your own grandkids who are sixteen and up on a trip is one thing. Adding three younger stepkids you barely know, may not be as good at supervising etc - that is very different. 16 and 21 year olds can go off on their own, etc

Drop it. Do something fun with the kids that week. Can they go to their own grandparents that week?

Also, did your parents give the stepkids equal gifts?[/quote]

This.  Traveling with three additional younger and more needy kids is too much to ask of elderly adults, period.

You need to get over the idea that everyone has to cater to your divorce and remarriage and insulate the kids from it.  This isn't your in-laws' problem and they did give your kids reasonable gifts.  You chose for them to be stepchildren and step-grandchildren and have a stepfather who won't go to bat for them.  [/quote]

The stepfather appropriately went to bat for his children, parents, and sibling.  Let’s not pretend he let anyone down here.[/quote]

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