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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's been that way forever. I'm divorced for 7 years now and my ex-wife would foolishly come here for relationship advice. She got some of the juice to instigate a divorce (as well as horrible legal advice) right on this forum. I post here to try to give a wake-up call to women who think divorce is going to be great, and a judge is going to hand them everything. My ex is currently 100 pounds overweight, single, living in a home that smells like cat urine, and the kids don't respect her.

If you value marriage at all I'd leave this place and never come back. 
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Yeah, that is NOT the norm of post-divorce life for women.[/quote]

As a man in his mid-50s who dates, I'd say many divorced women my age are as described above. About 2 percent seem to be thin, sane, and financially stable. Quite a few of them should have just hung onto their husbands. [/quote]

I'm trying to, but my husband is definitely mentally incompetent. We're on the 4th infidelity in  a year and they are all different kinds ranging from financial to emotional, to physical. It never seems to end. I've become a de facto nurse as he continues to blame his inability to think properly. Divorce is the last think I want, but is it worth it to be in a parent child relationship or one where you both hate or don't care for each other? Dysfunctional relationships cause just as many problems. I don't know what the answer is. It just seems like there are a lot of men that are very confused about their role as husband, father, employee, and community partner. Women too. Just a lot of people who are lost. [/quote]

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