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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Much abusive behavior has been tolerated and normalized by women and society over the years, but after years of education some forms of abuse or less tolerated - emotional and verbal abuse and infidelity. 15-20 years ago those were “relationship” or “communication” problems. Now they are “abuse,” and rightfully so labelled, IMO. [/quote] Yes! A year after my divorce, I’m fully realizing that the “relationship issues” we tried to “work on together” in couples therapy were not really disagreements or communication issues - they were abusive patterns (emotional abuse, character assassination, gaslighting) that couldn’t be remedied unless XH really addressed them. [/quote]
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