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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not major changes, but some days she feeds him lunch at 11 and puts him down at 11:30, other days they eat at 12:30 and he goes down at 1, sometimes it's somewhere in between. On the weekends, I always feed him at 11:30 and put him down at 12:15. I think he's in a nap transition, so maybe she's trying different things, but she doesn't communicate that and I am always nervous to bring it up because I am sympathetic to her feeling like we're watching her and I don't want to micromanage. To 14:04, my bad, I worry that nannies read on here and tried not to give away identifiable clues, so I tried to change my kids gender but did it inconsistently in my post. I'm also brain dead from being pregnant and think I might just be having a bad day.....[/quote] You sound too involved in the midday schedule (probably because you're WFH, I can relate). If you were working outside the home, you wouldn't have this degree of visibility into this. Her standoffish behavior might be her trying to hint that you're too involved / on top of them during the day. Unless it's messing up bedtime or overnight sleep, let your nanny figure it out.[/quote]
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