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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Check your Divorce Agreement.  Mine states that the Party will introduce the new SO to the other Party if/when the SO is introduced to the kids, which should not happen prior to 6 months.[/quote]

I do not know why anyone would put that in a divorce agreement. I certainly did not.[/quote]

It's weird but I've heard of multiple people doing it. Very controlling if you ask me.[/quote]

I am the PP - yes, this wasn't a highly negotiated provision, honestly.  I think it was just standard language in the agreement.  There haven't been any new "SO"s in the year since we divorced, so haven't looked at it since then.  I knew there was something about introducing the kids to a new SO, but can't really imagine that either of us are going to be looking to require a "meet the new guy / gal happy hour" or anything like that.[/quote]

And actually - I don't have a problem with it.  The provision only requires that we tell each other and introduce the new SO IF we introduce the kids to the SO.  So it's not like I have to tell him if I am dating someone new.  Or that he has a right to tell me who to date.  Our kids are  young too - 5 and 8, so there really shouldn't be any reason for them to be involved with new relationships / people unless it is VERY serious.  We have 50-50 custody, so post COVD, plenty of free time.[/quote]

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