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[quote=Anonymous]I think I'm the same, OP. I love my husband and don't want to divorce. We are generally happy and have enough in common to make it work. We are decent co-parents and have fun times together. But when people talk about "soulmates" or how in love they are and how they can't imagine being with anyone else or anyone better they lose me. 
He doesn't get me. Like the core of who I really am. He likes me, loves me, sometimes enjoys me, respects me, but I don't think he understands me. 
I'm not sure how he would answer this question.
I could have done much worse. I'm not sure that any other marriage would have been better. I certainly do not think that I would be happier divorced and remarried to someone else, even if they understood me better.
My hope is that as our kids get older I will have more time to invest in meaningful friendships again. I always got a lot of satisfaction from friendships in the past, but for various reasons I am not close to many friends anymore. It makes some of the less than awesome parts of my marriage relationship more difficult since I'm relying on him as a partner and a friend right now.[/quote]

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