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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this has nothing to do with whether this makes him a great guy or not, but everything to do with what you want your life to look like. Do you want your own children? Can you both afford to take care of this child and also your own? Are there financial provisions for this child (living expenses, college, etc)? Are you comfortable becoming a parent to this child? Eventually the grandparents are likely to become incapacitated or die, leaving your BF as the primary caregiver. There's no way around this - if you marry him then you'll be a parent. It would be a very different ballgame from meeting another single, childless man and getting married then having your own kids. It might be great, but understand that it would be very different, requiring you to take on similar responsibilities and challenges as with being a step parent. Good luck whatever you decide.[/quote]
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