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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've just always had a weird feeling about him. He has never been very sexual. I was a virgin until we married and the sex is ok but not very frequent and he doesn't seem that enthusiastic. From what I know all his past exes were women and I haven't seen him watch gay porn. He does have guy friends and one close gay guy friend who I hang out with too. I notice he usually seems to clench up around new men he meets and I can't tell if its because he is shy or something else.

I will walk around him naked and he isn't very sexually motivated.

Any other red flags to look for?[/quote]

I mean, you were a virgin until marriage so it sounds like you weren't very sexually motivated. Are you gay?[/quote]

OP here. No I am not gay. I am very attracted to my husband and want sex all the time. I was a virgin due to religious reasons.[/quote]

If he is very religious too, his behavior/attitudes may not match what you see in the media for straight guys. He may have conflicted attitudes about sex generally.

I would not think he is gay because he is not as excited by you as you think he should be.

If you have the sense for other reasons (gaydar) than ask him. But he may be very upset by the question. Perhaps bring it up obtusely: like talking about people who figured this out late in life or people who are not sure of their sexuality, whether it is a choice or you are born that way, etc. If you ask in a kind/open way, his answers may be revealing. But you  may have to think about what any revelation would do to your life. [/quote]

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