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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds terrifying. Read The Gift of Fear and act accordingly. Good luck. [/quote]

It is terrifying! I try to avoid speaking to him because he turns everything into a screaming/name calling match then tells me it’s normal for married couples to “talk” to each other like that. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around him to avoid confrontation, but it always turns into one. I’m losing my sanity and my sleep! :( [/quote]

OP. People like this don’t change easily, and if they do it is usually only modifying behavior because others are watching. My ex has stupidly even stalked on this forum, relatives, other things. There are tactics and responses than can help empower you without fueling the fire he wants to burn everything down. Tell him nothing about anything no opinion, no correction of lies or misspeaking, nothing. Go gray rock. Become as interesting as a morsel of chewed grizzle on a chicken bone.

What state are you in? Don’t worry, sadly there are many women experiencing this dynamic so it wont compromise your anonymity in any way, but if you even share a county posters may be able to help identify and recommend specific resources.

Happy new year!! You have a new life ahead of you. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, build your tram of support and equip yourself the knowledge and resources to bring the things you want for security and happiness to life. Please also find a support group somehow. If you can’t? Come post here. [/quote]

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