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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Re: if kicking is abusive, I’m just not sure OP is a reliable narrator here. Very normal when a spouse gently “kicks” to alert the other spouse that their alarm is going off. OP is clearly the person ignoring the alarm and wants to build a case that this is abuse but I sure wouldn’t want to tell a family court judge that the abuse started with alarm clock kick-nudges. [/quote]

That's actually not normal at all. If you want to wake someone up, you lightly tap them on the shoulder, you say their name, you don't kick them. This isn't how most people live.[/quote]

NP here. Nope. You don't get he nice wake  up when you allow your alarm to go off and do nothing about it, you get nudged with the foot, or the pillow. I'm not fully waking up to coddle you because you don't want to deal with your alarm and think I should. I'm not your mom.[/quote]

You sound like an angry, violent human being. "Allowing your alarm to go off" is normal human behavior. It taking time to deal with that is normal human behavior. I pray you're not married, or that your violence doesn't escalate.[/quote]

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