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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kinda sounds like ILs have the problem and it's spilling over into your life. Just remember you can't control other people but you can control how you feel. Take charge woman and don't let her bother you![/quote]

I agree.  I also wouldn't take responsiblity for inviting her to your DD's party.  She's your DH's sister, let him invite her.  Why do you have to own that?[/quote]

I'm also in agreement with this.  Don't give her too much credit -- your reaction to the situation is borderline paranoid.  I know as my mom was like this with her inlaws.  She gave them way too much credit and always thought they were trying to screw us.  Yes, they were not nice people, but it really came down to the fact they just didn't notice us much and we were below their radar.  Instead she ramped the whole thing up in her head and it became a big deal for her and I bet, if you had asked her many years ago she would also have said they would like to stomp around on their carpet in poopy, muddy shoes too.

You will be much happier if you can learn to step back and take it at face value and not add a lot of other context to the situation.[/quote]

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