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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any early forties, single males on here really discouraged that so many of the women (in similar age range) are divorced and NOT looking to ever get re-married?  I have no problem dating divorced women my age, with or without kids, but from what I read here, few of them actually want to re-couple.  They only want companions or activity partners.  Not another husband.

As an aside, I hate all the references to guys that have never been married as "damaged goods"...yes, I did have a significant anxiety disorder for most of my thirties...so there is that.  I would still be a good partner for someone now that I have sought-received therapy!

Sigh.  :( 
Not sure what to do...I really needed the therapy in my twenties so I could meet someone in my thirties.  I missed the boat.  F$ck!
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OP. Sometimes I wonder why some of my single friends in their 40's never got married but when I think about whether I would go for them the first thought that comes to mind is that they are probably set in their ways and wouldn't be able to handle the complexities of family life or the compromises that would need to be made. That and the fact that there are threads on here saying men just don't typically take well to another man's kids. So that's my take on your situation. There are probably plenty of women that would like you to be their husband and father to their children, but they are tired of drama and you'd have to give them a drama free life.[/quote]

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