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[quote=Anonymous]Stbx spouse of an alcoholic here, with more experience on this than I would wish on my worst enemy. I think if YOU wanted the breathalyzers, it would be fine to receive them (I wanted them to know my kids were safe) but I agree that if you dont want to be the police for him, a sponsor is a better option. Their job is to help him stay sober and a good one wont take a squabble about a missed test personally. and i think you are also right about the missed tests being a nightmare. One time stbxDH was in CA for a conference and didnt send one at the expected time in the morning, and I was totally panicked and absolutely positive he was passed out cold in his hotel room. I spent all morning trying to track down someone who could go knock, or the hotel to ring me to his room, when he finally woke up and sent me one. it was awful.[/quote]
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