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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I'd do it, but only if I was comfortable telling my husband about it. [/b] And only if there was absolutely no risk that it would turn into more than just coffee.  I'm friends with a few of my exes - and I'm single, so the potential to say "what if" would theoretically be there.  (let's face it, i'd rather be "taken" than "single.")  But in reality, my exes are nice people whose company I enjoyed, but we wouldn't have worked out, and i don't do the "what if" thing about them.

if there's any degree of "what if things had been different", I'd leave it alone.  But if this is rekindling a friendship that only ended up because you stopped dating... maybe.[/quote]

I agree with this.  As a general rule, I don't do anything behind my wife's back, using the old, "it's completely innocent, but I kept it from you because I know you'd be upset" excuse.  That leads down a bad road.  If you feel like you can tell your husband, then go.  Note - I didn't say ask for permission, I said tell.  He may not love it, but that's not a reason not to go.  If he creates a huge stink, or "forbids" you to go (hah!), then there are deeper issues you may want to address.  [/quote]

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