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Reply to "I grieved end of marriage, now he wants to work on it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Saying this as someone who ended up separating from their spouse. I feel like 6 weeks of counseling isn't a whole lot; we spent over a year trying to work on our issues before realizing things were not reparable and parting ways. Had my STBXW made that same type of realization that your husband did 6 weeks in, I'd have been ecstatic.[/quote] Thank you, I have heard that too, that it takes awhile especially when things have built up over many years of marriage. I do want to keep going but I also want to maximize the time we are there and try better to understand what I need to see/hear from him and what will help me let go of this resentment -- or make me realize that I can't. I am also in my own individual therapy and it feels like the more I center myself, what I want/need, what I deserve, and how I've been hurt, that I feel less able to move forward with him. [/quote]
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