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Reply to "I grieved end of marriage, now he wants to work on it"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think this is the kind of thing you need to talk through with your therapist, maybe even one on one. I really hated the love bank concept, but ultimately it worked to describe what was going on. Your love bank is depleted, and in order to move forward, he has to work to fill it again. It helpedmy husband really understand what was required of him. His love bank might be low, too, and so he might be thinking well what about me, but he has to understand exactly how low yours has gotten. Essentially, you have to fall back in love with him. It's not an easy task. I think it might be hard during covid (as opposed to pre covid when you could 'date' to recapture the love), but if he can do things that help you see him in a positive light, make you want ot spend time with him, maybe you can fall back in love. [/quote]
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