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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't birdnest, it's stupid. [/quote]

OP here. Why would you think so? I thought that it would be better for the child to stay in the environment they are used to and let the parents alternate. I know this is different, but we both travel several times a year for a couple of weeks at a time, so being with just one of us is not completely foreign to our DC. Also to clarify, I do not necessarily see this separation as a definite path toward divorce. I mentioned that I do not feel like saving the relationship, but I mostly meant under the current circumstances. Right now I can't even stand to look at my husband, let alone talk to him. I just don't want to be anywhere close to him. Whenever I walk out of the house for whatever reason I feel immediately happier. I am thinking of the separation  as a tool to figure out whether this is pandemic related or if the differences we are discovering on daily basis are impossible to work out at this stage. In case I conclude it is the latter I do not want to compromise my chances to retain custody of my child in case I am the one who moves out.  In that case I would be proposing 50/50 because my husband is actually a phenomenal dad. Unfortunately, that does not translate so much into being a great husband.[/quote]

exactly why birdnesting is stupid. it's for people who can't make up their mind. separate beds are best in your situation. [/quote]

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