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[quote=Anonymous]Your mother was devastated about losing your father and did not have anywhere near healthy ways to express or process her feelings. That being said, having compassion for your mother's situation and feeling some duty as a daughter does not mean accepting abuse. It is difficult to change patterns, and I am not talking about your mother I'm talking about you. OP, for the sake of your own life you need to find a way to remove yourself from the storm. Decide what works for you, not your mother. Is cutting her out completely beyond where you are, then cut back to every other week. Limit the phone call length. I went to email because hearing my mother's voice and victimhood every call was more than I wanted.[/quote]
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