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[quote=Anonymous]There are plenty of success stories and they almost always are due to how the cheater responds and how committed they are to individual therapy and change. An affair sometimes serves as a major wake-up call and after intensive individual and couples therapy some people maintain their marriage ends up stronger and happier than before. They communicate better and demonstrate deeper love. They gain the tools for success. But if the male or female cheater is a remorseless, selfish jerk that never gets to the cause of their cheating and wants to shift blame or dust over it, the marriage is destined to fail. I know people that have come out of midlife after recovery from an affair stronger and happier than those limping along in a loveless, bitter and resentful marriage where nobody cheated. [/quote]
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