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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have 2 choices
1) guaranteed a life  of soul sucking misery.

2) a life where you have possibility of finding happiness. Yes, could life get worse? (But really how much worse can your life get? And if you think being alone is worse than being with this a$$hat, you need to get into therapy and figure out why being alone is worse than being abused) But you have a *chance* to find happiness.

I take a life with the possibility of happiness vs a life guaranteed to be filled with misery.

[b]BTW—abusers make you feel like life without them will be worse. That’s how they trick you into staying. [/b][/quote]

My ex-husband did this. In hindsight that was the only relationship where someone said no one else would want me. I was so young and vulnerable - I believed him. Boy, was he wrong. By the time he spoke that way I was years into loving him and never questioned his judgment or opinion. It was the start of a very unhealthy cycle that was very hard to break from.
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