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Reply to "I wanted to be in love with a kind, decent, good person"
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[quote=Anonymous]You’re thinking that you might be better off in a relationship that causes you pain, that hurts you, because it’s better than being alone — and you’re scared that you’ll find yourself in a similar, or worse situation. I would recommend finding a good therapist who can help you be kind, decent and good to yourself - and to understand that you’re worthy of that. You need to learn to trust yourself, first and foremost - both your gut and your instincts, so you can get to a place where you’re not living in fear that you’ll be blindsided again (which keeps you feeling stuck in your current situation). I imagine there were signs within those 6-7 years that you had a high threshold for, or tolerated, or ignored. This is something that can be gently unpacked with a good therapist, and will help you move forward. You also need to learn to be alone, before you can even consider another relationship, and know you’ll be okay.[/quote]
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