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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The attention.  Needed lots of attention/admiration.
Extremely flirtatious.
Fixated on himself/body
Entitled
Talked down how other men were losers
Everyone was always lame.
Felt he was special 
Very critical

His father was an alcoholic, cheater and extreme narcissist.  His mother was cold, borderline and in denial of everything.

He love bombed the shit out of me the first few years and could charm and make anyone believe anything.

I see it’s all a cover for how much they hate themselves on the inside.  They also learn to feel no guilt/empathy.[/quote]

What makes it worse is they have the ability to make even most therapists think they are wonderful.  They are experts at manipulation and charm.  That compounds the feelings of isolation and thinking you are absolutely crazy.  Their personas at home and outside of the home are often very different.  It's easy for them to portray as the 'crazy one'...and, again, they are never at fault in their eyes.  It is always somebody else's fault for driving or making them do whatever ill behavior they choose to partake...

Yep.  It’s eery.  They also tend to target well-adjusted women for long-term relationships because these women are unsuspecting and don’t believe anyone is capable of being so covertly evil.  [/quote]

+2.

Divorcing a narcissist is pure hell. When you realize who they really are you wonder if you are so well adjusted to have fallen foe a person like this. Just a reminder — there is nothing wrong with YOU for BELIEVING A LIE. You were lied to, manipulated, and used as emotional bait. There are 2 people I know who feel guilt from falling for a person like this, the issue is not with you, it’s them. Be thankful you woke up and have the strength to course correct.

Also narcissists will often put you on a pedestal. Doing so will often make you think act favorably towards you, which is the total end game. [/quote][/quote]

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