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[quote=Anonymous]IMO you are not obligated to have any relationship with someone who refuses to respect your boundaries. Once he started sending you nasty texts after you asked him to stop, he showed you what he thinks of your boundaries. If you say "I won't take your calls or texts: stop contacting me" and then continue to engage--even just to re-send that message--you are showing him that your boundaries are not firm. He is getting something out of this pursuit of your support. If you are committed to the possibility of a relationship, you could tell him you need some time away from the relationship and you will contact him in X weeks, but please do not contact you. If he again disrespects that request, I would block him. Though I would be blocking him already based on his behavior and refusal to respect your wishes regarding contact. [/quote]
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