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[quote=Anonymous]OP, similar situation, several years out from divorce and honestly after y1 it was the best dating period of my life for so many reasons. There aren’t slim pickings of good (never married child feee) men and I was surprised the bachelors like you a lot because you’re real and not anxious to be wifed up. Younger guys too were a big surprise, also different races. Just go with the flow and don’t box yourself in. Also you’re not too old. You may end up like we did with an oops baby. If you are a good person with your stuff together, there is never a time when you aren’t attractive to someone, but you don’t want to make a mistake or waste time so really ensure you love your time alone and this man is worth anything requiring a divestment of your priority to make room. He needs to bring something to the table for you, and for your child, especially if you’re sharing a seat. If he makes it that far, whether you want more kids or not probably won’t be the main concern. You will both move the needle to accommodate each other.

In my experience this has been the best time of dating in my life. I met the love of my life and my entire view of what is possible changed. But you have to be in the right place or you will attract more of the same just with a fake veneer.

Keep your options open and just take it day by day without too much pressure on him or you.[/quote]

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