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[quote=Anonymous]It's completely okay to be sad about it -- but you are only 39 and life isn't over yet. If you really want kids, I would say have one on your own, but understand that it will likely put off the chances that you will also be married in the near future. I hit 39 with the same choices, and while I really wanted a partner and a child, it wasn't on the cards at that moment in time, and I felt that if I held out for both 'in the proper order', the odds were good that I would end up with neither. So I had the child on my own, which was great, but it took me a long time to get over the anger of not having a partner -- raising a child alone is a slog, and it is lonely -- your child is not your companion. [/quote]
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