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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“Hey Fred, I need some help getting items down from the attic. It will take about 15 minutes. What’s a good time for you to do this with me in the next two days?”

“I don’t know.”

“Well, can you pick a time? I’m trying to work around your schedule.”

“5:00pm”

“Great. I really appreciate it. 5:00pm.”[/quote]

Then 5:00 pm comes around and he doesn't bother.[/quote]

Whether you want to do this or not is up to you. This is not tug of war right? This is family that has to live together. You ask him when is a good time for us to get the stuff out of the attic. Yes, I know. but you go and you kind of help, and take stuff from him down, or you stand there and act like you are doing it together and you hand him a drink that is festive and you start putting the tree up together. OR. And this can work every time. you start doing it yourself. Slowly and loudly. Grunt, and bring one thing down at a time like a branch at a time. and be super inefficient about it and he'll take over in no time. Don't pin him to a time and then put it on him to remember/act at that time.[/quote]

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