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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I still think the fight is about money, and not about "nothing."  OP, it's irrelevant that you paid the bills three years ago.  Three years from now, if he forgets your child's birthday and you call him on it, I hope that he won't bring up that one time when you forgot to pay daycare.[/quote]

OP here.  I think you're misunderstanding the fight, and that's fine, this is the internet.  Here's how it went:
DH: "I pay every other bill and you can't remember to pay this one bill."
Me: "Yes, I agree that I forgot, we got a notice and I'm paying it in the morning.  [For the past year, it was automatically deducted and we recently switched daycares and were waiting for the automatic payment to kick in.  It wasn't on any of our radar.]
Me again: "I know you pay all the bills.  If you don't want to, I can.  I don't mind.  I did it when we lived in XYZ, it's not like I can't do it.  I did it once, I can do it again."
He then went nuts saying I never paid the bills, that he has always done it, and it was never my task to do.  Which wasn't true.
That's the context of it.  I wasn't at all the way you are making it out to be.  I know we all want to pounce every now and then, but really, you misunderstood.

For what it's worth, DH and I talked and he said he is utterly frustrated with himself for making such a big deal over it.  He apologized for calling me a liar, the new daycare costs are being automatically deducted as of this week, we have decided that I will pay all the daily bills and he will manage the rest of the money, etc.  I'll see how this works.[/quote]

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