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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does he say about why he can’t call as he’s walking to his car? [/quote]
As I said, I’ve never asked. I always assume he’s on his way home, and he usually walks through the door at 6:30 sharp.

Should I honestly make him call every day and just assume I shouldn’t cook if he doesn’t call by 5:30? Is that the answer? If no call by 5:45, kids get nuggets and dad gets cereal? [/quote]

I would cut him out of the equation. If you feel like cooking for yourself and the kids then do but if you don’t feel like it don’t. Let him fend for himself. It sounds like you’ve been too accommodating for him. Let him heat up leftovers when he gets home. [/quote]

This is what we do.  It isn’t that great of a solution, though. Unfortunately, the consequence of not caring whether he gets home or not is that we don’t care if her gets home or not.  Because he can’t be depended on, DH has become more of a welcome visitor than a true member of the family.  [/quote]

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