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[quote=Anonymous]I've only been through reconciliation with someone that cheated once, but he acted similar to how your husband is acting now.

It's probably partially real, but mostly fueled by the fact that he's been caught and wants to keep you from taking him to the cleaners.

Leaving is very hard especially if you have a family. Do you have anyone that could come stay with you, help you think through things?

He needs to leave your home immediately and suggest he start going to individual counseling. Cease all contact with him. Only allow him to contact the person staying with you to see the kids. Give yourself a few weeks of not seeing him and talking with your friend or family members to decide what you want to do next (and let him know that is what you are going to do).

If you decide to continue to make it work - counseling is a must. Individual for both of you and together. Don't let him move back in unless you feel great strides have been made in counseling. And that may take quite a while. If you never feel good about him, then you should end it and contact a divorce attorney.

If you decide that it really is over then contact a divorce attorney and begin counseling or mediation to decide how to co-parent effectively.

Good luck

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