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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does partner mean that you intend to be a couple forever or is it more like a boyfriend? I don’t think it’s weird that my DH texts my family without including me. Neither of us texts neighbors. What is he talking to these people about?
Why isn’t he on speaking terms with his neighbors?  It’s like you’ve omitted most of the story.[/quote]

no she did not omit, what she said is concerning enough. obviously your DH can text your family without including you, I sometimes text my SIL to ask how the family is doing (we live thousands of miles away from all the ILs), but we have been together/married 20 years. I supposed to have been with your husband a few years and he is your family, your family are his ILs. this guy is the "new" boyfriend. he seems to have a pattern of trying hard to be extra friendly and forge a relationship with people leaving the connecting person out (OP's family and friends leaving OP out, his brother's friends leaving the brother out). going to extra mile to befriend OP's neighbor even though OP does not have a good relationship. however, no relationship with his own neighbors. this is enough to conclude that this guy is trouble.

OP, sometimes people waste time trying to understand why other people do something weird. dont waste your time, this guy is weird, is behavior is not nice and you had a gut feeling that this is a red flag. that should be enough to just move on. find a nice person who makes you happy not somebody who makes you feel uneasy[/quote]

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