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[quote=Anonymous]My husband had a year-long affair with a coworker (he left the job after the affair). I made him leave the home briefly, but we reconciled. I always said I would never take back a cheater, but here I am. But....the affair absolutely devastated me. Took me years to get over it. I still think about it sometimes, (affair was 4.5 years ago). I can say without a doubt that knowing how long it took ME to deal with it, that I absolutely, positively WOULD NOT reconcile with my husband if he had another affair. Weirdly enough, I could deal with my husband having casual one-night stands. This would only apply if he traveled for work and the PROTECTED sex happened then. He doesn't travel, so he gets no outside sex. He DEFINITELY doesn't get to build an emotional relationship with another woman while we're married. Sorry you're going through this OP. Seems like your husband is forming emotional bonds, along with the sex. I could not deal with this a second go round. [/quote]
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