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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know that 9 years is too large an age difference. Only you can make that decision and it's probably a sliding scale based on how much you like the guy. More critical than the age difference, I think, is rather you're at the same stage in your life. You say he's ready to have a family, are you? Also, while a 31 and 40 year old are both in the same general stage of life, depending how you age, it may become more significant later. On the other hand, depending on genes and lifestyle, the older one could be more active and independent longer. Talking about marriage and family before a first date seems to be rushing things a bit, and those aren't things that should be rushed. Could you spend time together as friends and see what happens? To me, regardless of age, I'd be wary of anyone in a hurry to tie the knot.[/quote]
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