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[quote=Anonymous]I think it is their way of saying "mind your own business--our divorce is not a horrible tragedy." In some cases, maybe this is true, but I doubt it. People aren't going to tell you what was wrong. I am divorced. It "looks" amicable. We would not say these things exactly as you are describing. What people (other than very close people) don't know is that the marriage was a mistake to begin with, it was never happy, there were too many dealbreakers about life goals, controlling behavior and emotional abuse. But we look amicable--for the kids. We don't want people thinking our kids are going to be screwed up. It is as simple as this: we were never meant to be together and got trapped in it for far too long (first kid not planned).[/quote]
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