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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When you see her, toss our head back and laugh. Shake your head. Then move on. [/quote]

OP doesn't seem capable of laughing or shrugging this off, though. A year later, and she is bothered by this woman. [/quote]

This is OP. If I did this, I feel confident this woman would go around telling people that I was deranged and that she saw me "laughing hysterically on the street and talking to herself." I would really prefer not to draw her attention to me in any way. [/quote]

I am wondering why you didn't confront her at the time. You write it wasn't worth the conflict to you, but here you are a year later. She's not doing anything to you. You seem bothered by her. [/quote]

I did confront her. It changed nothing. That's why I decided it was not worth the conflict to me -- I did not want to fight with someone who was obviously not acting in good faith.

And yes, I am bothered by her. That was the literal point of this thread -- I am bothered by her and I would like to not be. Fortunately, people had some useful things to share and I have some ideas for how to move forward.

Thanks so much for your interest and concern.[/quote]

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